1.\tHe avoids any talk about the future. You bring it up — he turns it into a joke, changes the subject, or gets irritated. A real partner doesn’t fear looking ahead. If the future is always “later,” it’s a direct sign that you don’t have one together. \t2.\tYou constantly feel like you need to justify yourself. For your words, your mood, even just for existing. The right person doesn’t make you prove you deserve to be there. If guilt follows every step — that’s not love, that’s a hook. \t3.\tHe